Hi there, thanks for your interest in this site and my
book.
Well, everyone's got their own sexual history, and
recently I've felt the urge to write down mine, hence this sexual
autobiography. I genuinely wrote it as a record for myself, sort of
mulling over and thinking through all the sexual things that have happened
to me and that I've experienced, but I guess there's no point it never
being read now it exists, so I hope someone will be interested enough to
give it a try.
Be warned that it's pretty frank and explicit, so is for
unshockable adults only.
I guess I hope someone will read it and say, "hey, I
know exactly what you mean by that", or "that's happened to me
as well". Even if they only say, "I would never do that
myself but it's interesting that these things go on out there," that
would be good too.
I originally called the book 'Sex & Me', and this is
reflected in the chapter
titles (eg 'Sex & Threesomes', 'Sex & Dogging', etc) which cover various
areas of my sexual interest and experience. I've decided to change
it to 'A Passion For Sex', though, and I really like this new title now.
It seems to put its
finger on what I'm trying to portray; that somewhere between the two ends
of the spectrum - between, on the one hand, being in love and having sex
within the proverbial 'meaningful one-to-one relationship', and on the
other, completely casual, harsh, soul-less, meaningless sex - it's possible
to experience sexual situations that thrill you and excite you, that you
can feel passionate about and moved by. That make you feel life is
worth living, and sex is worth having, and people are worth knowing - even
if it's not all about love, or not just about orgasm.
I know there are a hell of a lot of people out there
writing blogs about how they feel about things and what they get up
to. It's strange we have this urge to bare our souls and tell the
world about our real, secret selves (even if maybe the world doesn't
care), but I can totally understand it. Especially with sex, because
I think your
sexuality lies at the core of your true self, and especially when you
spend most of your life hiding those parts of yourself from the people
around you, there is a need to make a statement to posterity - 'This was
the real me; this was how I lived'.
Anyway, I hope you find something of interest, or that you
can relate to, in my book, and
genuinely welcome your comments.
Hoping your own sex life is all you want it to be!
Love, Suzie